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This messaage also says a few things:

This message also says a few things:

Easiest of the options, requiring literally no effort

Your words cannot be twisted and used against you after you're gone

Will likely be forgotten given time, should this person ever end up in your life again

You've said this would be seen as incredibly rude, and it very well might in your circumstance.

Closure

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Risk alienating this person forever. This is the type of social behavior that would be remembered years and years from now when you might run into this person in a situation where you're forced to be cordial.

Risk alienating your other friends. Moving away is tough, especially when you're younger. If you're truly blunt about how much you dislike this person, or just honest but your words are twisted after you're gone, this whatsapp group may not be the lifeline to have people to talk to after you move but before you've met new people.

Near-zero risk of long term negative effects

Not very satisfying

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Some closure

Constructive criticism

Likely to be remembered

Difficult to do

Could backfire if the person truly dislikes you

This says a couple of things:

1. You want to continue to keep the peace

2. You know that it isn't entirely your fault you don't get along

3. You know that it isn't entirely her fault you don't get along

This also says a few things:

1. That you were hurt by her behavior

2. That you realize you've hurt others by doing the same thing

3. That you WANT to get better, but it's too late for the two of you

• Easiest of the options, requiring literally no effort
• Your words cannot be twisted and used against you after you're gone
• Will likely be forgotten given time, should this person ever end up in your life again

• You've said this would be seen as incredibly rude, and it very well might in your circumstance.

• Closure

CONS:

• Risk alienating this person forever. This is the type of social behavior that would be remembered years and years from now when you might run into this person in a situation where you're forced to be cordial.
• Risk alienating your other friends. Moving away is tough, especially when you're younger. If you're truly blunt about how much you dislike this person, or just honest but your words are twisted after you're gone, this whatsapp group may not be the lifeline to have people to talk to after you move but before you've met new people.

• Near-zero risk of long term negative effects

• Not very satisfying

PROS:

• Some closure
• Constructive criticism
• Likely to be remembered

• Difficult to do
• Could backfire if the person truly dislikes you

This message says a couple of things:

1. You want to continue to keep the peace
2. You know that it isn't entirely your fault you don't get along
3. You know that it isn't entirely her fault you don't get along

This messaage also says a few things:

1. That you were hurt by her behavior
2. That you realize you've hurt others by doing the same thing
3. That you WANT to get better, but it's too late for the two of you