Timeline for Friend's controlling girlfriend is always listening to his phone calls with me. How to stop this?
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| Nov 22, 2022 at 14:42 | history | protected | CommunityBot | ||
| Sep 12, 2018 at 12:26 | history | edited | LampPost | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Sep 12, 2018 at 7:51 | comment | added | Raimund Krämer | The question's title seems confusing to me. Should it perhaps say "Friend's controlling girlfriend" rather than "Controlling friend's girlfriend"? | |
| Sep 8, 2018 at 10:17 | vote | accept | LampPost | ||
| Sep 7, 2018 at 13:43 | answer | added | Mohep | timeline score: 0 | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 17:54 | answer | added | Upper_Case | timeline score: 5 | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 17:49 | history | edited | LampPost | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Sep 6, 2018 at 12:40 | comment | added | LampPost | @Raditz_35 I believe the friendship is in desperate need of rekindling but that might make this question too broad so I'll keep it to overcoming the phone call for now. | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 12:21 | comment | added | LampPost | @Raditz_35 It looks to me that the friendship will fade. We used to talk openly but I get the feeling that bringing up their relationship in a negative light would result poorly. | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 12:17 | comment | added | Raditz_35 | What is your relationship like with that friend? Could you clarify why you can't talk openly about it? I can't speak for you (that's why I'm asking), but there are friends where I could just tell them outright and don't have to beat around the bush. Other, not so close friends or perhaps more fragile people, well, you have to watch out what you tell them. Do you ever talk about real issues with that friend? Did you ever talk about each other's relationships in an open and honest way, past or present? | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 12:16 | history | edited | LampPost | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Sep 6, 2018 at 12:14 | comment | added | user9837 | All of this info you are adding in comments is relevant to the question. Could you please edit the question to include these details? Could you also add something about whether your friend thinks his girlfriend's presence '24/7' or other aspects of her behaviour is a problem? As the question stands it can be read as you being jealous of the GF and competing for control of your friend. | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 11:58 | comment | added | LampPost | @Daniel She thinks I'm talking specifically about something she wouldn't like. Ex. Other women. She has misinterpreted my words before and it led to her blowing up on me and my plans with my friend for the night canceled. | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 11:53 | answer | added | user6109 | timeline score: 13 | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 11:53 | answer | added | Greg | timeline score: 2 | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 11:44 | comment | added | user6109 | Have you tried a simple: Look, this is kind of private, can you please not put me on speaker? | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 11:31 | comment | added | LampPost | Phone calls she's always there, when we go out she always has to come along. The only time I could think of is before and after he commutes to work but that's not a reasonable window of time to work around. | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 11:08 | comment | added | Arsak | Do you have the chance to talk to your friend in private at all, or will she be around each minute? I am asking, because I think there will be different approaches if you ask only him to stop including her, or if you have to talk to both of them about this. | |
| Sep 6, 2018 at 10:42 | history | asked | LampPost | CC BY-SA 4.0 |