Timeline for How can I tell a friend about a future trip without upsetting another friend, who wants me to hold the truth about it?
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| Oct 4, 2019 at 14:14 | comment | added | MlleMei | @CaldeiraG I agree, and I also think they're maybe not comfortable with that reason being addressed, which they fear they might have to do if A comes to them and asks why they weren't invited. OP is also assuming things here, which is why I suggest having a broader talk, so they can find a compromise on how to handle this. | |
| Oct 4, 2019 at 13:39 | comment | added | CaldeiraG | "He often misses social cues and interrupts the flow of conversation with something random. I believe that "Friend B" is impatient with these tendencies and thinks "Friend A" is often intentionally arrogant when he's really instead socially unaware in small ways." - I think this is the reason why B doesn't want A to know about the trip. | |
| Oct 4, 2019 at 13:28 | history | answered | MlleMei | CC BY-SA 4.0 |