What I do in those circumstances is to point out the stuff I see that are "boring".

Last time we had a get-together, the dude forgot to put some music on, so I pulled him to the side and said:

"Hey man, could we maybe get some music pumping ? Been wanting to show you X or Y artist".

"Sorry bro my speaker is broken" (he never had a speaker) ",but nextime Ill >remember that"

"So when's the next one gona be  ? My place or your place ?"

"Bla Bla Bla"

"You bet, Ill be going then, Good Night Josh"

This is what I found that works the most while providing feedback, most extreme reaction I had was someone telling me that If I wanted to order pizza I would have to pay myself cuz they couldn't.

And you know what  ? It was perfectly resonable.

What I do in those circumstances is to point out the stuff I see that is "boring".

Last time we had a get-together, the dude forgot to put some music on, so I pulled him to the side and said:

"Hey man, could we maybe get some music pumping ? Been wanting to show you X or Y artist".

"Sorry bro my speaker is broken" (he never had a speaker) ", but next time I'll >remember that"

"So when's the next one gonna be? My place or your place ?"

"Bla Bla Bla"

"You bet, I'll be going then, Good Night Josh"

This is what I found that works the most while providing feedback, the most extreme reaction I had was someone telling me that If I wanted to order pizza I would have to pay myself cause they couldn't.

And you know what? It was perfectly reasonable.