For context, I am a twenty-four-year-old man. Recently I made the acquaintance of a woman who is twelve years older than myself. I was instantly struck by her extreme beauty and made efforts to form a bond with her. A few days ago she made a bet with me that I could not cook her a satisfactory dinner. I did cook quite well and she admitted defeat. Because I won she said that I get to pick a reward.
My problem is that all I can think of is asking her to spend a few hours with me this weekend wandering around the city so that I can get to know her better. However, I found it difficult to ask her for this, as I am afraid that she might stop visiting altogether if she thinks this is an unwanted advance. How can I ask her for this in a way that shows I am not going to make any unwanted advances, and that I just want to get to know her better and lift up my spirits in the process, as I have been feeling a bit gloomy lately?
- We usually meet once every week.
- I don't have any intention of dating her, I just wish to spend more time with her.