My godmother told me about her friend whose son needs tutoring in programming. I contacted this woman, and referred her to my boyfriend, whom I thought would be able to be of more help than I. I gave her my boyfriend's number and Facebook account name.
The problem is, this woman now keeps contacting me by phone text message every time my boyfriend doesn't reply to her son's message or something similar.
She's relatively polite and all, so I'd feel bad for not using excessively polite and nice words such as "I ask you kindly". However, I'm very angry and I want to express my dissatisfaction with her constantly contacting me because of something my boyfriend did or did not do. It's basically like she's pestering Person A (who has referred you to Person B for help) when Person B is not available. I have nothing to do with it anymore! It's my boyfriend's responsibility now! My boyfriend is the one she should be pestering! Not me!
Is there an aggressive and assertive way to tell her to stop bothering me and to bother my boyfriend instead, but still not impolite enough for her to be able to complain about me being rude?