I am an introvert; I would classify myself as a creative problem solver with a love for art/math/science. Specifically drawing, computer programming, solving mathematical equations etc. My favourite of these is my passion for drawing and creativity. Although I class myself as an introvert, I do have some tendencies towards leadership. People seem to like me but I sometimes avoid conversations as I hate to start things. However on occasions where someone says I cannot then I usually try to prove them wrong. I have tried to socialize with women, but I seem more able to talk to men. I talk to women mostly for work but my I can't seem to find a women to hang out with or date. It's worth noting that most of my work colleagues like me, so I don't come across abrasive, or dislikeable as far as I am aware.
The interpersonal problem is two fold, firstly how would someone with my personality factors start to learn or understand techniques to open a dialog with members of the opposite sex that illicit a more personal and or emotional response from them. Secondly, what are some of the better environments I could go to, to help with this, I.E. Arts centers, gyms, academic schools etc.