I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year. I decided to start the relationship knowing that she had two children.
Suddenly a couple of things happened that I didn't plan. I was born in Venezuela, where we started our relationship. The crisis in the country increased radically and I had to leave. I helped her come with me. She left her children for 5 months with her mom and then she brought them. I helped her because the extreme situation. I love her, she is a great human being, and the kids are good kids.
Here's the Thing
We live in Peru and she only has a couple of friends here. She depends emotionally on me (I'm not sure until which point) as currently her family is in another country.
I have been planning to work in Europe as a Software Engineer for 4 years. I made the decision that I really want to live in Europe for two years at least. I don't want to hurt her feelings because she is in love with me and her older relationships weren't good.
My question is:
How can I tell her my decision, to go Europe and eventually end the relationship, without hurt her feellings too much.
I want the best for her and her Kids