My ex-girlfriend and I have been separated for months, and she still has some of my personal stuff. As our relation ended in a bad manner we don't speak a lot to each other. She said at multiple times that she will send me back my stuff, but she never did.
It's hard and painful to simply discuss and listen to each other, so asking again for my stuff is even harder... Plus she is so broke than she can't even afford to send back my stuff. I told her that I can send her money so she will be able to send back my stuff, but she didn't even go to the postal office (which is a 5 min walk from her house) to tell me how much it will cost. She lives 600 kilometers away so I can't go get back my stuff myself.
How can I ask again for my stuff to make her actually do something about it?