I have a crush on my college friend and want to take her out to cinemas or other places. When I ask her out, she always asks me if her female friend could go along with her. I know it's not a date just hang out together. But, I really only want the two of us.
How do I politely tell her about it?
- We are in our mid 20's. We've been friends for more than 4 years; we just hang out and chit chat.
- I need to get along with her friend, as we go to the same college.
- I don't really know how normal this behavior is. Some girls probably play it safe, just like some of the nice answers here.
- I'm not refusing her when she brings her friend. We still go out. But you know, sometimes I just want to be together with her when we go out - just the two of us