Currently, I am living in Germany, and I have an old friend (he was my neighbor also in country of origin) who moved here a few months ago, and by luck, he is living now not far from my home.
Generally, I like to help people, especially who I know (family or friends), just this friend broke contact between us for no reason, and now as he needs help, he is trying to contact me.
As I said it is a pleasure for me to help, but as this friend refused in his first months to contact me (he said no need for that), so I don't want really to give him any kind of help now.
How to tell him politely that I'm a human as anyone else, and he can't come to me only when he needs help?
- We are both from Tunisia
- We were good friends in the past, but after he stopped all kind of contact for no reason.
- I am someone who like to help others, but in this situation I feel it is rude.
Yesterday he tried to contact me, first via Facebook by sending messages there, and after he got my number from someone we know, started calling me more than 100 times. This is making me nervous.