I am mexican working in Germany (31), I got to know an amazing german lady 3 months ago (26), we started texting eachother since, it is awesome, we always have something to talk about and we both love joking around.
We have had 4 dates already, always a great time, she always wrote me afterwards something like "today's evening was awesome I enjoyed a lot thanks".
I have to say, I really like her so at the end of our last date I told her so, of course I added some "spice" first and then I told her loud and clear "I like you".
Her answer made me come to you for some counseling and suggestions, I am quite confused; here her words "I am pleased that you tell me that, it makes me happy, I enjoy a lot texting with you, every time I see I have a message from you I get excited and when we go out I have a great time, thank you for telling me this".
I was expecting maybe "I like you too" at the end or something and I didn't ask her "do you like me?" or "how do you see me?" maybe I should have done it but I though "I should never put a lady under pressure, if she feels it too, she will tell me without me asking, if I ask I could put her on the spot" so I didn't ask.
After that we kept texting eachother normally, there was no change on her side, always smiley and energic writing me about her day, which made me happy but on the other hand... I find myself like "floating on the space" if you know what I mean, with thousand things on my head, I just really want to know, what does her response is supposed to mean? Do I like her or not?
I really want to know if she likes me but I am not sure how to ask without putting pressure on her or making her feel "under attack" so I kindly ask for some advise from you:
How can I ask her if she likes me?
Thanks a lot in advance, cheers.