I'm a 24 year old girl and a few months ago a guy wrote to me by chat answering a question, I was happy because I "know" him a little in social media and he seems to me a interesting person. The problem was he gave me short answers like "haha" so I think I was bothering him so I stopped to chat him. A month later he contacted me again. We texted during a few days, he takes a long time to answer me (6 hours or 1 day) so...the same story happened, I stopped to talk and everything ok. This situation has been repeated MANY times but I feel very tired and uncomfortable because I love to communicate, send random photos, audios, have a good conversation and know things about the person but I can't with this boy and that makes me think I'm doing something wrong every time.
I have a lot of introverts friends and I never had a problem with them because I talk a lot, I ask a lot and I hear a lot too. They say to me I'm a easy going person (maybe that explains why I can't manage this rare situation for me)
I don't know how to act. He is a confirmed introvert, but I can't distinguish the thin line of introvert / disinterest. My desire to meet new people makes me want to talk but my insecurity makes me think that I'm bothering. The most important thing for me is not to overwhelmed anyone.
Question So...I should ask things, talk and continue the conversation or only give a short answers too?