I met a person online. Both of us 35.
After some conversation, I asked him the kind of books he prefers. He told me that he reads dark books which I won't like. I guessed "crime/ghosts", he said no. Then I got curious to know what does dark mean and asked him to give example. He told me he likes "Penthouse forums" and reading about the sadistic side of humans. One side dominating the other vulnerable one in sexual terms.
Some time later he asked me to tell him my dark side. Then he asked me to tell him the wildest thing I have done. I asked him if he has asked in reference to the books he reads. He replied he knows I am not too sexual since I usually talk about specifics and sexuality is not black & white etc.
How to respond to someone who wants to know my dark side and wild things that I have done when I don't understand what he wants to know exactly?
Moreover, when someone asks and tells such things what does it usually mean? What should be expected from such people and conversations?
We are from India. India has a conservative culture regarding females and wild things (whatever that means).