I'm a 14-year old female and I've been friends with this specific girl for about 9 months. She has been really 'touchy-feely' with me for the past month. I'm the type of person that doesn't really enjoy skinship, but because I dote on this friend of mine, I just shook it off. I know the fact that she tends to hug people a lot, but it seems a bit different with me.
She tends to be touchy with me more than what a 'normal friend' would. She do things like what an over-protective girlfriend would do to her boyfriend (Hold hands, Lock arms, Blow kisses).
My best friend who I have been friends with for 7 years doesn't really do physical intimacy that much but this 9-months girl have stepped over the boundaries sometimes. She said that she used to be bisexual but has become straight; however, all my friends say that she probably has feelings for me. This has been bothering me for quite some time now...
I don't want to break our friendship. How can I tell her that I'm not comfortable with the physical contact she is initiating? :(
- I'm Straight
- I'm uncomfortable with physical intimacy
- The girl used to be bisexual