First and foremost: I do have a really great relationship with my girlfriend. We trust each other blindly, never argue, almost everything is perfect and we are happy with each other.
But one thing sometimes bugs me. During work I have lots of free time and sometimes want to write with her a bit. But sometimes she does not seem to have that much time, which is totally normal and something I understand. But she almost always says things like "I got several things to do" or that she is somewhere and I have no clue why or what she does at this specific location which bugs me a tiny bit.
To clarify I for my part am a person that likes to share my day with my significant other. I tell her almost everything I do, when I go somewhere, what I got planned etc. It has nothing to do with someone being jealous or something like that, I just like doing that.
So on the other hand when my SO after not hearing from her the whole day writes "yeah I got some stuff to do" it hurts me a bit because I want to be part of her day a bit, and it feels like she does not want to tell me what she is doing. We do not really keep secrets from each other and talk A LOT when together about everything so this is no trust issue but it sometimes feels bad to me personally.
We are able to talk about it if someone has issues with something so this is normally no problem, but this feels to me a bit silly and small and actually no fault on her part because she doesn't have to report to me of course. It just feels bad for me sometimes. (Especially when she writes without smileys suddenly, and I know this sounds incredibly silly, sorry.)
So how can I communicate to my SO that such vague answers after not hearing from each other the whole day hurt me a bit?