I'm in a long-distance relationship, fortunately we have plans to put an end to the long-distance. However something really bugs me, namely how whenever I ask something she says "yes sure I'm doing it right now" and then she doesn't and avoids talking about it.
The last example is when I asked her to proofread my résumé because English is not my first language. She said "sure", then talked about other things. Twelve hours later I reminded her, she said "yes I'll do it right now" (again), and then didn't do it.
The same thing happened, for example, when she had to book tickets to come to see me. She said, at four different occasions, "ok I'm doing it today", and then finally I had to confront her about that, and tell her it was okay not to do it but I would like to know. Then she finally did it, but it really felt different for me because now she was doing it at my request and not genuinely by herself. I find her unreliable in general, and I'm pissed that she seems to doesn't give a damn about keeping her promises.
If I just confront her about that I'm pretty sure she will say "oh yes you're right" but won't change. I'm pretty sure she does love me though, I believe her. Can you find any way to make her understand (verbally or non-verbally) that I need her to be able to say no to my requests, or when she says yes to really mean it?