I met this guy last summer, we'll call him Chris.
My friend was dating his roommate. All of us hung out in a group that night and I ended up sleeping at his and his roommates place just on the couch. Him and all his roommates also work out at the same gym as me so after spending the previous weekend with them I saw Chris at the gym but he acted all awkward as if he didn't know me so I just left it. This went on for months until the same group of us were out months later at an event.
He came up to me that night said he's seen me at the gym, knew he knew me and should have said hi blah blah blah. I ended up going home with him that night, just sleeping over no sex. We texted the next day but no msgs to hang out after that but he would say hello when he saw me at the gym.
Months go by again and I saw that he liked me on a dating app. I liked him back and we've been texting for a couple days now, made plans to hang out next week etc.
We were talking about the event we "hooked up" at last year and I said "I'm definitely going to get tickets this year, it was so fun last year! a lot more fun since you decided to stop ignoring me after months and months.. .. just kidding Hope you have a good day!" No reply yet for hours…. I'm a little worried I offended him or maybe he thought I was just digging.. Really I was just teasing him because I'm not upset about it.
If I don't hear back, how do I best tell him that I was just joking and didn't want to upset him?