I will try and keep this succinct as I could type pages upon pages. In short, I underwent a radical change in my life 4 years ago where I had to walk away from almost my total family (all but one sibling). My primary friendship was united with a sibling and at the time of the break I make the (regretable) decision to close that friendship group. I had other friends, but they were few. I started a new job and made some friends there. I'm a person that seems to fall into states of a small close nit circle of friends. Anyways, I sadly become a very toxic person and started to push away (directly and indirectly) my new and existing friends.
I'm now at the point where I've confronted my personal issues and am working on the causes of the toxicity that I had had. But, I essentially have no friends. There are a few people on social media that I make contact with, but there is no one that I actually socialise with in person. If tomorrow I decided to have a party, I literally would have no-one to invite. I just started a new job and I've started to make 'friends' of sorts with a few people, but outside of that the only face to face interaction I have with anyone is with my sibling and her family (I live with them).
I recently turned 35 and to be honest, I have no idea how to now make friends. Where do you go? who do you contact? How does a person make new friends in their mid 30s? Is there 'friends sites' like dating sites?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.