Like most people with ADHD, I suffer from constantly changing jobs and financial problems. I'm trying to get a prescription for ADHD medication. so I can have a stable career.
There are a couple of problems:
I live in a miserable country in the Middle East, which I can't find this kind of medication unless I import them.
Our currency has been devalued a lot, so it's prohibitively expensive for me to import these medications.
I have an uncle who lives in Europe, and I wanna ask him to help me with this. I'm a timid person, and when I ask people for something, I get uncomfortable, which shows in my voice. Plus, I don't want to appear selfish, manipulative, or abusive. I want to pay him back.
How could I ask him in an empathic and implicit way so he would help me?
In my previous request, I just asked for what I wanted; he didn't give me a "No." he said he would help me, but he just ignored it after a while. And to be honest, I didn't follow up with him either. Maybe I should have followed up with him. My impression is perhaps I just sounded selfish to him.