I have a senior friend (colleague) who keeps talking to me about her experience even something it costs me a lot of time (one or two hours per time) unnecessarily. She may want me to be better or else but I do not want to listen to too many things at once.
She mentioned mainly about life experience while in the office, rarely relevant to works. It is just too overwhelming for me to listen to too many things at once, and I can't digest it and she just keeps talking and she thinks that it will benefit me in the future.
Because she was too close to me so sometimes it is hard for me to open my mouth to talk to her directly. And actually, we sometimes already said that we should not talk about that much. However, she still keeps talking to me a couple of days afterward. She just makes the mistake of keep talking and I am tired of reminding her about that. I mean, whenever I want to tell her to stop, I just think that she wants the good things for me, which deters me from asking her to stop and it is quite rude from my point of view as well.
I've reminded her a few times about this, but she sometimes had a grumpy face after being reminded. I am wondering if there is any solution that I can talk about it without upsetting her?