I am working in an IT company as project manager. I have met this girl who is a software engineer in a different team. We have known each other for one year now.
She likes to talk to me. She calls me at least 6 times every day and we talk for 2–3 hours a day. She also WhatsApps me daily. She tells me that some of her friends say that we are in love and we both laugh at such comments. She discusses almost everything about her to me and I do the same.
But she does not like us meeting each other. She ignored my invitation to have tea together on campus two times and after that I never dared asking again.
I like her and have a crush on her, but I am finding it hard to understand whether she has a crush on me or not. If I ask her directly and she does not have such feelings it may affect our friendship, which I do not want to happen.
Under normal circumstances I could take it as a crush on me and ask her out, but her reluctance to meet me is making it difficult to understand her.
Is there a way to interact with her so that I can understand whether she has a crush on me without directly asking, in order to keep her as a friend without offending her if she does not have a crush on me?