My cousin has mild autism (not Asperger's Syndrome). He's 22 and never manages to get past his probation period in the jobs he's had. He is a hard worker and a warm person, but he is pretty dim.
It dawned on my yesterday that he has an awful haircut - the first words I thought of to describe it were "damp Bond villain". I am wondering if he would benefit from a sharper haircut. One that will he help him create and maintain a better impression.
I take an interest in my appearance, so I am quite confident that I can help him find a great haircut that he will like.
My family can be very protective of him, so I do not want to bring it up with anybody until I know how to phrase it gently, which is why I'm asking you guys for advice.
What do I do? What do I say? Do I speak directly to my cousin, or discuss it with other family members first? Do I dance around the issue, or outright state that I think he has an awful haircut?