It is certainly not useful to ***pretend*** to maintain a friendship if you don't want to, but there really is no reason to ***formally*** end an old friendship. The earlier [answer](https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/a/10606/381) by @[svj](https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/users/10513/svj) is exactly right in advising you to >pretend to be busy whenever they call and never call back (...) everyone kind of gets the point that you are not interested in keeping up the friendship (...) I don't think you should end a friendship unless the relationship is toxic or the particular friend is a negative person (...) It is as easy as ignoring them to give a clear non-verbal message that you do not want to continue the friendship. On the other hand, ***telling them outright that you want to end the friendship would be hurtful*** and I would advise against it for that very reason. Even if the friend were toxic I would advise you to simply ignore them because they don't deserve an explanation, but your friends don't appear toxic, judging by your question. The real value of old friends, in my experience, is that they will remain ***much closer*** to you than any new friends, even if you are not in regular contact, and old friends can be extraordinarily supportive (especially emotionally) if you ever find yourself in a difficult situation, *even if you have ignored them in the interim.* You lose that extremely valuable source of support by trying to formally end the friendship. Meanwhile, you don't need to feel guilty for ignoring them. Unlike a formal or informal statement ending the friendship, ignoring them is neither final nor an explicit rejection [At least one of them is probably wondering right now how to get rid of *your* friendship without hurting your feelings, and might settle on simply ignoring you for now.] Old friends can accept that you have other friends and other interests, and have no time for them right now: it has happened to us all and ***we have all done it to others as well!*** They will certainly understand and the friendship can be kept on hold for the future.