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How to convince my wife that my best friend and I are just friends?
EDIT: You've mentioned in another comment that you've been diagnosed with autism, so I'm even more convinced this is the case. … These are the exact social cues that people with autism miss all the time. …
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How to convince my wife that my best friend and I are just friends?
I don't know if this has any relevance but I thought I would include it anyway that I was recently diagnosed with Autism. …
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Meeting someone who used to bully me
I had a hellish existence growing up with a hearing impairment, autism, and neuromotor issues from brain damage. I was walking around with a HUGE bull's-eye on my back. But, people age and mature. …
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Dealing with somebody who's ignoring my very existence
A little about autism
I think it's worth knowing a little about how she may see the problem. … Autism is a development disorder that slows mental and emotional development. …
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Dealing with somebody who's ignoring my very existence
One of these friends, Alice, has an autism spectrum disorder. This friend got fired from our workplace. … Alice has an autism spectrum disorder. I don't know if her behavior is caused or exacerbated by that, but her behavior is disruptive regardless. …
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How to encourage a child with autism to practice reading?
FULL DISCLOSURE: I am a high functioning autistic
Three things come into play with autism that I see here. … You will never win a battle of wills with someone who has autism. The rigidity is a brick wall you will run against. …
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How do I tell a potential partner about my autism?
I was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome (a form of autism) when I was in college, and I haven't had a serious relationship since that time (about 3 and a half years ago). … Although I have gotten better at managing a lot of the social issues that accompany my autism, I still have sensory issues that can be problematic. …
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How can I effectively tell people that their defensiveness over me bringing up an issue is p...
Say a friend of mine makes jokes about autism and about how some behavior is "just such an autistic thing to do" in a demeaning way. Now I say well that's pretty demeaning to people with autism. …
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How do you tell a Facebook friend that they might be on the autism spectrum?
Autism Spectrum Disorder
Ok, so a bit about ASD. As is mentioned in the name, it is a spectrum. Not everybody will be equally affected by it. …
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How can I politely reject someone's advances?
As you've learned, just having the autism in common doesn't mean you have much else in common, and sometimes even the flavors of autism don't jibe well. … If you just don't want to be friends with this person any longer try something like:
Dave, I'm sorry but outside of the autism, I just don't have anything in common with you. …
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How can I more clearly ask people to accommodate for my autism?
This is why I think many people show behaviour similar to autism but it's accepted because it's not explained and excused with autism. … Try to think without explaining yourself with autism. Many things are "socially acceptable" if you don't give the opportunity to deny their source. Just show the outcome. …
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How can I more clearly ask people to accommodate for my autism?
Sometimes autism causes underdeveloped social skills and/or language skills. It's different for everyone. I lack most of the autism traits you see in the media. … Because of this, people tend to question whether I really have autism. This seems to stem from a misunderstanding of what autism really is. I often get told "Oh, but you're so social!". …
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How can women avoid talking during dates while keeping men at ease?
I am on the autism spectrum so I always struggled with it. So I was relieved to find men don't want to talk face to face either. Since then I went on a few dates. …
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How to use Social Penetration Theory to increase closeness with someone who doesn't normally...
She is on the autism spectrum. Which means, Alice has problems 'relating' to me. If I was talking about a problem or my feelings, Alice wouldn't disclose, because she couldn't relate. …
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How can I politely reject someone's advances?
I don't think he has many friends, but we don't really have a lot in common except our autism. …