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Boyfriend anger expression issues - "If I can't have it, you can't either"

Relationships only work when both partners are in it together. If one of them wants out, the other doesn't get to veto that. Emotional blackmail does not save relationships, it kills relationships. …
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How to find out if my girlfriend secretly wants to get pregnant?

I've been on the "baby crazy" train before, and your situation is nowhere near that. To be fair, I can't conclusively disprove anything, since any observation maybe be wrong and could just be an even …
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Angry at me for not coming over

Sadly, it did not go away and I told her that it might be better if we spend the night separately because I didn't want her to suffer and stay awake just because of my constant coughing. It's sub …
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How can I talk about sex with my girlfriend without giving her an ultimatum?

I don't think that I will be able to continue being happy in bed if this is how it is forever. This is an ultimatum, albeit phrased more politely. And that's the problem: it's still an ultimatum …
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How to tell my girlfriend I do not want her to visit?

The basics Although it's fair for you to ask for alone time, the way you ask it is important too, to prevent from coming across as wanting to avoid her. Source: Am Belgian, live in Belgium with my N …
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How to politely tell a friend that I want to hang out with her, but not invite others?

Adding this answer for the minor gap in the other answer: what if she isn't actively inviting her friend to avoid uncertainties? It's not beyond the realm of possibilities that she's simply inviting …
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How can I tactfully ask someone whether posts they made are potentially about me on social m...

"If you have ever left me or stopped talking to me for any reason, don't come back without 10 good reasons why I should let you" Personally, and I'm aware that this isn't really IPS centered, but …
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How should I address scheduling phone or video calls with my long distance girlfriend?

Being sure about talking to each other gives you a feeling of security, which is something that long distance relationships often lack after a while. … Long distance relationships often entail some problems. …
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