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(Note: I am autistic myself) As a general rule, autistic people like facts. So, what are the facts that make you believe your son can't do all those things? Please, remember that your son has the ability to learn things. So you shouldn't say "it's impossible for him" without even trying. People often think that "this autistic person will never ...


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Regarding your second edit I think there was indeed some misunderstanding, so I'll address that. Regarding the swiping, it's quite simple, the app is expected connect two people that have swiped "yes" to each other. It is nothing more than a pre-selection to a text conversation, you don't have to decide yet if you want to meet the person. A "...


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I have been using zoosk, so I can share my perspective. I get a lot of messages, and I ignore almost all of them. I can tell you the main reasons: The message is one of the pre-made messages provided by the app, telling me to ask them anything. If you message me, you should be starting the conversation, not telling me to. The message is a comment about ...


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Everyone has a different expectation of what constitutes a satisfactory answer to any given question he asks, even that question is as straightforward and simple as what 1 + 1 equals. That is due to the fact that there are certain subjective presumptions of prior knowledge inherent in both the question and in any attempted answer that are by no means ...


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This is going to sound off, but it's true: the only way to get your mother not to just use "because I said so" and "as long as you live in my house" is for some of her other techniques to work some times. For you to go along with what she wants just because "that sounds reasonable" or "that makes sense" or "that's ...


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Personally I have a handicap that have been predicted as making me not being able to get a job, and I've not only found one but also been consistently praised in doing well. I'm supporting Ael's answer in the regard of thinking differently about limits. On a particular aspect though, I think there is also an opportunity to communicate more positively to your ...


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I remember being in my 15s and being in a similar situation about poisoned relationship with my mother. Back then, I lacked the communication tools I now have to handle these problematic situations. First, the desk incident. You plan for things that would require her approval. She refuses, and she refuses giving reasons. The primary reason things escalate ...


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