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I'm a clean(-ish) person and my partner a messy and hoarder(-ish) person. We've been living together for a year and a half. Things aren't perfect yet, but we're getting there; it's a process. I was also a messy person until I was 25 years old, so I have an idea of what's it like on the other side. Here are a few things I learned : You can't change someone ...


Before reading my answer consider that I am not a native English speaker. As someone who moved together with a messy partner: Please make sure you are willing and able to live with the mess. I actually thought that there must be a way to sort this topic out. But everything I tried failed. What I learned from this experience is that you can't MAKE people ...

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