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Simple. Don't ask them out. Just make friends and go from there. It sounds like you have a discord where you can do more casual mingling that isn't focused on the game, so do that. If there isn't one already, start or ask for an off topic or irl channel or something to enable casual chat outside the games. Women are repeatedly hit on in spaces like this to ...


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I think there's another step you can take, that could eventually lead to having more contact with these women, although it doesn't directly focus on asking them specifically for a one-on-one chat. My advice would be to treat everyone the same, so even the males that are usually dominating the conversations, and just shoot a message to everyone explaining ...


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I recommend taking small steps first. Something like this continue being yourself in these large-group situations. Laugh at people's jokes, say interesting nice things when you're talking, respond to things other people say. You want to be confident that anyone you approach will recognize your name and think warmly about you when they do. if there is one ...


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If there is someone that interests you, it's definitely reasonable to message them privately however you can do it (e.g. via meetup messaging), and ask them if they'd like to chat privately (what in happier times would be asking them out). How do I know this? Well, about 7 years ago I was hosting a meetup group. One of the women in the group was ...


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