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Frankly, I don't think you can. Typically when people first start dating someone new, they put in extra effort to be the best version of themselves they can. This might include being more attentive, making a point to schedule fun activities, being extra helpful, taking more care on their appearance, initiating conversations, etc. Usually part of it is ...


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I honestly can't think of a time where I've ever decided to change how I treated someone in a relationship because of their passive aggressive behavior. In my experience communication is EVERYTHING and the lack of it destroys relationships. Hints never worked on me, nor did they help me in trying to use them to communicate my needs. I've learned (the hard ...


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Here is a pattern I see. your wife needed help when her grandfather died, and you didn't help (enough), partly because you feel you're not good at it. Alice needed help finding Bob, and you helped, and your wife was upset by this. You aren't sure if she was jealous, or if she was thinking that this shows you are good at helping when you choose to yet chose ...


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