DoubleD
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How can I lay out my reasons to my girlfriend for why we shouldn't get married?
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From what she said, she wants to become a citizen and be a pathway for other relatives to come to the US. Her begging went as far as offering to pay me. This would be immigration fraud. Absolutely do ...

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How to deal with discussions about finances with SO without it escalating?
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Without Escalation? First, it is impossible to guarantee a smooth, amicable process. Escalation is not solely within your control. Second, escalation may be helpful. Most people become upset when ...

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How to kill off my DnD character, without upsetting the Dungeon Master who has invested time into creating his backstory?
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If it will disrupt the story too much, don't kill off your character. You can transition him to an NPC under the DM's control while introducing your new character. Talk to your DM as soon as possible....

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How do I tell someone I recently met that I am in a relationship?
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Approach her with an outward attitude of openness. Most people understand miscommunication, social pressures, and the like. I'd suggest something along the lines of: I don't mind giving you ...

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What is the current etiquette in the US and UK regarding a man holding doors for female companions?
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First of all, LinuxBlanket's comment is what I do regardless of my companion's gender. In addition to that, holding doors exclusively for women is seen as somewhat backward in many areas. However, ...

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How to respond to questions at family holiday gatherings without making the asker uncomfortable about my sexuality?
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When people ask about an uncomfortable topic, they are often trying to familiarize themselves with it. Gradual familiarization is much easier than sudden immersion, so they usually ask about ...

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