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Elmy
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79 votes

Dealing with unwanted "Joking" physical contact

45 votes

How do you deal with colleagues and people around you constantly passing judgement on you for not knowing something?

35 votes

How do I help my girlfriend get out of this dangerous situation with her parents?

30 votes
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How can a girl ask a heavily tattooed, tall man who jumped the line, to get in line?

20 votes

How do I protest my child's suspension without "poisoning the well"?

18 votes

How to reply to unknown texter?

15 votes
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Raising the stakes in a game without sounding eager or greedy

15 votes
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How to make my friend realize he is a toxic person and he really has to change?

14 votes

How to stop a fragile friend from dumping their negative emotions on me?

13 votes

Wife wants me to be happy (or act happy) all the time

13 votes
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How do I deal with the problem of people who aren't listening to what I'm actually saying?

13 votes
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How can I talk with my friend about her burn out problems when I disagree with some things she says?

12 votes
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How can I diplomatically ask my neighbor to move his/her patio off my garage wall to stop damp

12 votes
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The daughter of our religious friends writes scary notes when she's at us. How to communicate that?

11 votes
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Being told to get into a relationship despite state of mental health, how to ask why?

10 votes

How to inform someone that you stumbled upon private information publicly available on their personal site?

9 votes

How do you politely respond to people who ask too many obvious questions?

8 votes

How can I tell my friend to stop telling me so many details on a subject?

7 votes

How can I steer my depressed / low self esteem friend away from belittling herself on unrelated topics

7 votes

Non-tech savvy roommate thinks I hacked into his computer because when he scans wifi it shows my printer connected

7 votes

How can I talk about sex with my girlfriend without giving her an ultimatum?

7 votes

How do I use body language to indicate that I am thinking?

7 votes

Is it acceptable to ask to speak to a potential partner's ex-partners?

7 votes

How do I respond to a person that says they are everyone's scapegoat?

7 votes
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How to tell my mother the way she acts when upset or tired is unacceptable

6 votes

Can my sense of common courtesy be considered sexism?

6 votes

How to address a detail of an idea without appearing to shoot it down?

6 votes
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Close relative refuses to acknowledge being deeply in debt

5 votes
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How to tell my boss about his lack of hygiene

5 votes

How to make my mum stop making disparaging comments about my appearance?