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Ontamu
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104 votes

Offering to share my umbrella without sounding creepy

78 votes

Dealing with small crimes as a volunteer

70 votes
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How to help a friend through a rough breakup when his actions are testing the limits of my patience?

70 votes

How to say no to an extremely pushy friend

51 votes
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How to tell a classmate I don’t want to give him a contact for an internship?

49 votes

Friend keeps making jokes about my ethnicity which are not funny

47 votes

How do you deal with colleagues, acquaintances asking you for knowledge that you gained with months of effort?

47 votes

How can I handle a bisexual friend whom I think is attracted to me?

23 votes

Carpooling coworker sometimes makes me arrive late or stay late

14 votes
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Asking my cousin to invite my GF to the wedding

14 votes

How to help significant other lose gracefully in games?

9 votes
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Address friends overly "agressive" way to get attention back on him when around girls

9 votes

Childhood friend wants to get a "best friends" tattoo but I do not think it is a good idea

9 votes

How to negotiate with landlady in a shared home who flat out says "no"?

9 votes

How do I bring up one-sided sex to my sexually inexperienced girlfriend without pressuring her into anything?

8 votes
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How do I convince my parents and their employee to close their restaurant while they go on their trips

7 votes

How can I encourage my boyfriend to stand up to his friends?

6 votes

How do I insist my wife gets rid of her recently bought pet spider, given that I'm arachnophobic?

6 votes

(ex)friend scammed me and is trying to discredit me in group of friends. How can I proactivley let them know what happened?

6 votes

How to deal with my girlfriend closing up when we have a problem?

5 votes
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How can I communicate I need to be told specific rules that they consider Christian values?

5 votes

Accepted receipt of ‘deepest sympathy’ flowers for neighbour

4 votes

How to convince a girlfriend I have not been unfaithful

4 votes

How to stop my friend's insane phone addiction

3 votes

How to help/advise a separated couple find an agreeable solution that does the least harm to their child during their turmoil?

3 votes

How to help my SO feel less guilty when playing competitively in games?

3 votes

How to reconnect with my unresponsive childhood friend?

3 votes

How can I tell my father I have traded in my car for leased car without checking with him?

2 votes

What is the etiquette for asking whether someone has a special diet

2 votes

How to ask the girl I am dating if she likes me?