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  • Vienna, Österreich
82 votes

How to ask your girlfriend to pay her share of the rent when she moves in?

82 votes

How can I know whether a female house guest is interested in more than a friendly visit?

73 votes

How can I politely ask my date to not use her phone unnecessarily during dinner, without ruining the night out?

61 votes

How do I avoid strange questions because of a flag?

49 votes

I was mistakenly identified as a criminal, and this has caused rumors. How can I convince my friends that it is all a mistake?

34 votes

How to tell a "friend" to stop pretending to flirt with my girlfriend?

31 votes

How to stop classmate from bullying me

29 votes

How do I tell my mother that I'm an atheist?

27 votes

How can I offer my prayers to an atheist colleague facing a serious personal situation?

26 votes

How to approach a friend about his girlfriend asking to sleep with me?

25 votes

How to approach discussion with wife about a possible "emotional affair"

18 votes

How can I deal diplomatically with a feminist neighbor who continuously delivers political speeches in private?

11 votes

How do I tell therapist that something is a big issue to me, even though culturally it's not?

10 votes

How to defuse or prevent an adult temper tantrum

9 votes

Two friends and their wedlocked affair

9 votes

Dreamt of another girl, want to tell my girlfriend, but how without getting smited?

8 votes

How to tactfully acknowledge a woman on Women's Day?

8 votes

In an early relationship, how can I handle my partner's deep depression and not be an enabler?

7 votes

How do I prevent awkwardness between a former romantic interest and myself?

7 votes

Talking to boyfriend about his close female friends

6 votes

How can I tactfully interrupt a customer service representative over the phone?

6 votes

How to explain to coworkers that being vegan does not mean I know everything about it?

6 votes

How to properly reject an intimate suggestion?

6 votes

Coworker scans my body. How to best tell him to stop?

5 votes

Sketchy "friend" recently revealed true colors, is attending my wedding. Should I un-invite, and if so how?

5 votes

How can I tell my wife that her fears and mistrust are hurting us?

5 votes

How to talk to someone about being chronically late - not to fix it, just to get more accurate ETAs?

5 votes

How to tactfully communicate with ex-boyfriend about my personal choices?

5 votes

How can I tell my friend her boyfriend is (allegedly) a rapist?

4 votes

Unintentionally started dating my best friend's crush. How to talk to him about it?