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Asking guys to quit shouting in a bar

conflict-aversion public-issues drunken-people
Jul 3 '18 at 17:10 Sojourner 837
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Encouraging bystanders to step up

united-states conflicts lgbt+
Aug 2 '18 at 20:48 Community♦ 1
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Explaining why I don't use social media

saying-no politeness social-media
Jul 1 '18 at 20:29 Community♦ 1
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How can I effectively tell people that their defensiveness over me bringing up an issue is part of the issue?

politeness gender lgbt+ racial-issues
Sep 23 '19 at 4:41 A J♦ 7,767
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How can I correct my family's use of language related to LGBT+ issues without making them uncomfortable?

conversations united-states lgbt+
Apr 4 '18 at 0:00 Community♦ 1
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How to respond to questions at family holiday gatherings without making the asker uncomfortable about my sexuality?

united-states family lgbt+ holidays
Apr 22 '18 at 6:32 Community♦ 1
 
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When playing darts, how can I separate real players from random drunks?

united-states public-issues drunken-people
Oct 21 '17 at 15:48 DesdeCuando 191
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So, my boss is teaching a class “about transgenders” [closed]

united-states work-environment lgbt+
Oct 15 '17 at 21:00 G. Bach 560
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Requesting time off to attend a Pride event

united-states work-environment lgbt+ requests
Dec 4 '18 at 19:37 Ael 17k
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Dealing with sexual comments from customers

united-states harassment customer-interactions
Jun 6 '18 at 8:05 Community♦ 1
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Managing unrealistic customer expectations?

conflict-aversion customer-interactions
Dec 5 '17 at 6:10 Community♦ 1
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Breaking up well

conversations united-states relationships conflict-aversion divorce
Jun 24 at 18:27 Community♦ 1
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Comforting a gender-fluid partner experiencing dysphoria

relationships lgbt+ gender
Apr 15 '18 at 3:18 Community♦ 1
 
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How do you deal with someone who always has to one up everyone?

united-states conversations conflicts
Jul 18 '18 at 16:27 Elsdon Ward 645
 
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How do you avoid conflict with zealots?

united-states conflict-aversion religion lgbt+
Dec 13 '17 at 14:34 Community♦ 1
 
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Tactfully declining a family Thanksgiving invitation

united-states family lgbt+ holidays
Nov 16 '18 at 7:07 Community♦ 1
 
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How do you stress that safety is non-negotiable at work?

united-states work-environment arguments
Dec 13 '17 at 17:57 Anthony Bird 101
 
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Cracking the whip vs leading by example

work-environment conflict-aversion
Sep 21 '17 at 6:44 OldPadawan 19.9k
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Why do people flirt in customer service situations? [closed]

work-environment autism-spectrum customer-interactions flirting
Nov 26 '18 at 13:25 Astralbee 26.7k
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How do I learn to pick my battles a little better? [closed]

conflict-aversion conflicts
Jan 16 '18 at 19:18 Kat 5,029
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How to manage people's reactions when someone is potentially dying of an overdose?

difficult-people parties drunken-people
Jul 1 '18 at 19:27 spiral succulent 1,494
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Untangling the intersections of transphobia, fetishization, and reality

online-interaction lgbt+
Dec 4 '18 at 3:22 apaul 54.3k
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Asking people to step up in a volunteer organization

conflicts volunteering
Jun 3 '18 at 5:23 J A 2,848
 
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Dealing with differences in fandom in relationships?

conflict-aversion relationships romance
Jul 28 '17 at 15:25 Philipp 1,819
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How can I explain to my partner that my online interactions are important to me to reduce their frustration when I talk about them?

conflict-aversion politeness romance stack-exchange
Jan 1 '18 at 20:13 LinuxBlanket 9,641
 
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Challenging someone's choice in username

online-interaction
Aug 27 '18 at 1:43 Kate Gregory 41.1k
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