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Asking guys to quit shouting in a bar

Jul 3 '18 at 17:10 Sojourner 837

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Encouraging bystanders to step up

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Aug 2 '18 at 20:48 Community♦ 1

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Explaining why I don't use social media

Jul 1 '18 at 20:29 Community♦ 1

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How can I effectively tell people that their defensiveness over me bringing up an issue is part of the issue?

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How can I correct my family's use of language related to LGBT+ issues without making them uncomfortable?

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How to respond to questions at family holiday gatherings without making the asker uncomfortable about my sexuality?

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Apr 22 '18 at 6:32 Community♦ 1

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So, my boss is teaching a class “about transgenders” [closed]

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Dealing with sexual comments from customers

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Jun 6 '18 at 8:05 Community♦ 1

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When playing darts, how can I separate real players from random drunks?

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Oct 21 '17 at 15:48 DesdeCuando 191

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Requesting time off to attend a Pride event

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Dec 4 '18 at 19:37 Ael 17k

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Breaking up well

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Managing unrealistic customer expectations?

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Comforting a gender-fluid partner experiencing dysphoria

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Apr 15 '18 at 3:18 Community♦ 1

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How do you avoid conflict with zealots?

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Dec 13 '17 at 14:34 Community♦ 1

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Tactfully declining a family Thanksgiving invitation

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Nov 16 '18 at 7:07 Community♦ 1

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How do you deal with someone who always has to one up everyone?

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Jul 18 '18 at 16:27 Elsdon Ward 645

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How do you stress that safety is non-negotiable at work?

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Dec 13 '17 at 17:57 Anthony Bird 101

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Cracking the whip vs leading by example

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Why do people flirt in customer service situations? [closed]

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How do I learn to pick my battles a little better? [closed]

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How to manage people's reactions when someone is potentially dying of an overdose?

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Asking people to step up in a volunteer organization

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Dealing with differences in fandom in relationships?

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Jul 28 '17 at 15:25 Philipp 1,819

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Untangling the intersections of transphobia, fetishization, and reality

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How can I explain to my partner that my online interactions are important to me to reduce their frustration when I talk about them?

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Challenging someone's choice in username

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26 Questions

Asking guys to quit shouting in a bar

Encouraging bystanders to step up

Explaining why I don't use social media

How can I effectively tell people that their defensiveness over me bringing up an issue is part of the issue?

How can I correct my family's use of language related to LGBT+ issues without making them uncomfortable?

How to respond to questions at family holiday gatherings without making the asker uncomfortable about my sexuality?

So, my boss is teaching a class “about transgenders” [closed]

Dealing with sexual comments from customers

When playing darts, how can I separate real players from random drunks?

Requesting time off to attend a Pride event

Breaking up well

Managing unrealistic customer expectations?

Comforting a gender-fluid partner experiencing dysphoria

How do you avoid conflict with zealots?

Tactfully declining a family Thanksgiving invitation

How do you deal with someone who always has to one up everyone?

How do you stress that safety is non-negotiable at work?

Cracking the whip vs leading by example

Why do people flirt in customer service situations? [closed]

How do I learn to pick my battles a little better? [closed]

How to manage people's reactions when someone is potentially dying of an overdose?

Asking people to step up in a volunteer organization

Dealing with differences in fandom in relationships?

Untangling the intersections of transphobia, fetishization, and reality

How can I explain to my partner that my online interactions are important to me to reduce their frustration when I talk about them?

Challenging someone's choice in username