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@littlestar If you have concerns over your questions visibility you should ask the moderators for advice. Ask what to do on buddhism.meta.stackexchange.com or even interpersonal.meta.stackexchange.com, otherwise comments are for clarifying questions, discussion about the site itself belongs on the meta stacks.
@OldPadawan I've made some edits, the goal is to resolve and move forwards rather than to win any argument ( avoiding an argument altogether is desired )
Some grammar corrects, punctuation, changes to make words flow better, and replacing 'guys' with people in the latter half so it's consistent with the first half and the OP question