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Jess K.
  • Member for 6 years, 3 months
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  • United States
196 votes

Covering for person who refuses to tip waiter without offending?

192 votes

Complimenting a female co-worker without coming across as flirting?

182 votes

My cousin doesn't know that I know he received money that belongs to me - how do I approach him about receiving the money?

179 votes

How do I deal with people trying to convince me to wear makeup?

174 votes

How to tell people I'm not their tech support?

148 votes

How do I politely explain to my neighbour that I don't feel comfortable being alone with her in her house while my kids play?

145 votes

Coworker scans my body. How to best tell him to stop?

122 votes

How to communicate to my mother that I find it hurtful when she cooks dessert for everyone except me who is vegan?

104 votes

How can I ask a new date to not smoke around me?

102 votes

How can I politely get the attention of a coworker who is listening to music?

83 votes

How do I respond to racist remarks from a coworker?

62 votes

How to ask a casual acquaintance for phone number without being awkward?

61 votes

How to convince the other party that I'm not going to do "the right thing" as the alternative matters more to me

57 votes

How to refuse politely to play with someone as a streamer

56 votes

How can I express my concerns about my underage brother drinking alcoholic beverages to him without sounding like I'm his mom?

51 votes

How do I deal with a coworker who unplugs my monitor because I didn't turn it off?

47 votes

How to address a someone who is constantly offended on my behalf

40 votes

How to respond to questions at family holiday gatherings without making the asker uncomfortable about my sexuality?

39 votes

How do I answer the question "why are you vegan?" honestly, without making them resent me?

36 votes

Breaking up well

34 votes

How can I correct my family's use of language related to LGBT+ issues without making them uncomfortable?

32 votes

How to tell a co-worker that I feel sorry for something I did

28 votes

Dealing with sexual comments from customers

23 votes

How do I convince someone formalities between internet friends aren't necessary over a casual, informal text chat?

23 votes

How do I politely say no to a stranger asking to use my phone to make a personal call?

21 votes

How do I prevent awkwardness between a former romantic interest and myself?

21 votes

Is it socially acceptable to dismiss a compliment?

21 votes

How to tell people that I don't like answering my phone?

19 votes

How to ask my SO if they are ok with me paying for their flight?

15 votes

How to approach someone about possibly not attending an event without offending?