Timeline for Girlfriend won't let me pay for her. How can I approach the situation?
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| Feb 20, 2018 at 21:10 | comment | added | Pranav Totala | Also it will be hard to convince if she is scared of her family, I will suggest that you wait for a year and carry on with both your studies. I am sure she would not refuse smaller helps till then. After that you can do on your accord and more easily keep it a secret from family. | |
| Feb 20, 2018 at 21:06 | comment | added | Pranav Totala | If it is not a problem in your relationship but more of a family problem, i suggest you must not force her to make decision against her family, ateast till she is not an adult. | |
| Feb 20, 2018 at 20:31 | comment | added | AndreiROM | @ShacharHar-Shuv - the problem is that they would probably notice (sooner or later), and probably get quite upset about you/her lying to them. There are already some underlying issues in their family relationship .. why not wait until she turns 18 and move in together? Then you guys can do whatever you want. | |
| Feb 20, 2018 at 20:27 | comment | added | Shachar Har-Shuv | She tells me it's mostly 2 but also 1 in a way. she tells me she would do the same for me ("of course") She also tells that if her parents will found out about me paying her it will get her into trouble. She tells me that even if it weren't for her parents she wouldn't agree. she feels as though she would owe me if I pay for her. | |
| Feb 20, 2018 at 20:23 | comment | added | Shachar Har-Shuv | @AndreiROM I think the deal is NOT telling her parents I'm paying for her, and hope they won't notice. | |
| Feb 20, 2018 at 18:53 | comment | added | AndreiROM | Although this addresses the OP's basic question of how to convince her to accept his money, it does not address the potential complications between the OP and his GF's family, or between the GF and her parents. What if she gets kicked out? What if they take steps to keep the two of them from ever seeing each other again? There's risks in antagonizing her parents that you are not considering, and which have potentially dangerous consequences. | |
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| Feb 20, 2018 at 18:29 | history | answered | Pranav Totala | CC BY-SA 3.0 |