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| Mar 3, 2018 at 1:38 | comment | added | Amadeus | @TheNCR It would feel far too imbalanced to me. I'm not counting coins, but for me there comes a point when it no longer feels like we are peers, when one person "brings to the relationship" money many times over anything I could afford. That does not make ME feel friendship, but inadequate, or resentful at being made constantly inferior in what I can bring. I like to think of my friends as my equals, sharing similar life experiences. Extreme imbalances would make that more difficult for me. | |
| Mar 2, 2018 at 21:49 | comment | added | TheNCR | I disagree with the "false equivalents". Every person provides what they can to the relationship (frienship). May it be money, hosting, advice, etc. It's not about keeping tabs and getting even on what each gives, it's about sharing with your friends what you can. | |
| Mar 2, 2018 at 20:59 | history | answered | Amadeus | CC BY-SA 3.0 |