Timeline for Dreamt of another girl, want to tell my girlfriend, but how without getting smited?
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| Apr 10, 2018 at 21:19 | comment | added | Jay | I believe in being totally honest. That's why every time I see someone who is ugly, I walk up to them and say, "you know, you're really ugly". And every time I see someone make a mistake, I immediately run over and say, "wow, you just made a mistake. You're probably feeling really stupid right now and if you're not, you should be.". No, I don't. There are some things that are true but that don't need to be said. | |
| Mar 9, 2018 at 17:00 | comment | added | Jeffiekins | You want to be transparent. Sorry: you can't always get what you want. You are not doing anything wrong by not telling her something that would only upset her. There is no possible benefit to her (or, really, to you) from telling her. If she were super secure, maybe there would be a way to tell her without having a bad outcome, but even then it's doubtful. | |
| Mar 9, 2018 at 13:17 | comment | added | JimmyB | Open communication: "Dear Girlfriend, I happened to see a girl on the other side of the street the other day. I just wanted to let you know that I did not find her attractive in any way." | |
| Mar 9, 2018 at 3:33 | comment | added | anon | @Pryftan I think there's a difference between saying everything and good communication. If it's a single dream that hasn't happened since, it's not really worth talking about, especially if you're not going to let anything happen on that front. If it becomes a problem for one reason or another, then I fully agree that OP and his girlfriend need to talk about it, but I don't think it's reached that stage yet. | |
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| Mar 9, 2018 at 2:46 | comment | added | Pryftan | Sure but at the same time communication is so vitally important and this goes esp for long distance. Although perhaps it needn't be discussed now it shouldn't be dismissed as never to be talked about (you do add a caveat there but it's worth repeating for a LDR). You're right that dreams aren't entirely understood but then much of the mind and conscious isn't understood. The impression I got from the OP is that it involved RP, the dream, and depending on how intense the RP is (if that's what it is) it can definitely affect you if you aren't careful (I know this from experience). | |
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| Mar 6, 2018 at 8:57 | history | answered | Berthim | CC BY-SA 3.0 |