#You will always sound petty saying this.
You will always sound petty saying this.
This could be the final time you ever talk to them again. Laying out your grievances on this final card shows that you are still thinking about the situation, even after the person has acted nicely ever since the choking incident.
Be the bigger person and forgive and forget. These comments should not be written on a going away card. They are better suited to a more private conversation in a text message or phone call. You never know how a person's opinions will change later down the line, and a card that highlights the negative aspects of the relationship will not be one the person will want to remember.
You are better off simply not writing them a card, or at the very least not writing anything negative on it. You even state that you are not 100% sure that she even still dislikes you. Just keep it to yourself and don't burn any unnecessary bridges, because you don't know what they will say about you to other people if you choose to do this.
Just forget about this incident and move on with your life.
One of my friends dealt with a similar issue where he received a "goodbye" card from somebody who had gone into extensive detail into an issue that was very minor compared to the description on the card. My friend had no idea this person was harboring this grudge and thought he was on good terms with them based on how they acted. Needless to say my friend hasn't contacted that person again.