When someone tells you that his partner (or herself) is pregnant, is it rude or unpolite to ask if the pregnancy was planned?

I imagine it depends on how close one is to the couple or one of the (future) parents, but there might be cultural differences too. Surely this is also better to ask in private rather than in public.

PS: I am referring to "normal" cases of "stable" partners, and not to more cumbersome situations like teenage pregnancy (admitting that in many cases the latter can be a perfectly voluntary pregnancy too).

When someone tells you that they (or their partner) are pregnant, is it rude or impolite to ask if the pregnancy was planned?

I imagine it depends on how close one is to the couple or one of the (future) parents, but there might be cultural differences too. Surely this is also better to ask in private rather than in public.

P.S. I am referring to "normal" cases of "stable" partners, and not to more cumbersome situations like teenage pregnancy (admitting that in many cases the latter can be a perfectly voluntary pregnancy too).

When someone tells you that his partner (or herself) is pregnant, I wonder whether it is rude or unpolite to ask if the pregnancy was planned?

I imagine it depends on how close one is to the couple or one of the (future) parents, but there might be cultural differences too. Surely this is also better to ask in private rather than in public.

PS: I am referring to "normal" cases of "stable" partners, and not to more cumbersome situations like teenage pregnancy (admitting that in many cases the latter can be a perfectly voluntary pregnancy too).

When someone tells you that his partner (or herself) is pregnant, is it rude or unpolite to ask if the pregnancy was planned?

I imagine it depends on how close one is to the couple or one of the (future) parents, but there might be cultural differences too. Surely this is also better to ask in private rather than in public.

PS: I am referring to "normal" cases of "stable" partners, and not to more cumbersome situations like teenage pregnancy (admitting that in many cases the latter can be a perfectly voluntary pregnancy too).

When someone tells you that his partner (or herself) is pregnant, I wonder whether it is rude or unpolite to ask if the pregnancy was planned?

I imagine it depends on how close one is to the couple or one of the (future) parents, but there might be cultural differences too. Surely this is also better to ask in private rather than in public.

PS: this, of course, does not apply to special circumstances like teenage pregnancy. I am referring to "normal" cases of "stable" partners.

When someone tells you that his partner (or herself) is pregnant, I wonder whether it is rude or unpolite to ask if the pregnancy was planned?

I imagine it depends on how close one is to the couple or one of the (future) parents, but there might be cultural differences too. Surely this is also better to ask in private rather than in public.

PS: I am referring to "normal" cases of "stable" partners, and not to more cumbersome situations like teenage pregnancy (admitting that in many cases the latter can be a perfectly voluntary pregnancy too).