Timeline for Handling an ex-girlfriends jabs in her responses to me?
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| Mar 3, 2023 at 23:17 | comment | added | Maximilian Ballard | @gnasher729 I definitely think he should walk away, but this can be very difficult for victims of abuse. People struggle to understand this until they actually experience it. I have known many people abused and unable to walk away, it could be "minor" insults or it could be physical/sexual violence. | |
| Feb 16, 2021 at 8:46 | answer | added | Martijn | timeline score: 5 | |
| Feb 7, 2021 at 18:56 | comment | added | gnasher729 | You have three possible outcomes: a. You go your separate ways. b. You keep being abused forever. c. You convince her to stop abusing you. How acceptable or not is (a) to you? That influences strongly what you can or cannot say. You can avoid painful arguments easily by walking away if you are willing to do that. She is your ex, right? That means you can walk away. The dog will likely be happier in one place without arguments. | |
| Feb 2, 2021 at 14:41 | history | edited | PKU | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Feb 1, 2021 at 15:07 | comment | added | PKU | Thanks Tinkeringbell for your edits. I'll go through it and see what more I can add without messing up the changes which you have made. | |
| Jan 30, 2021 at 4:08 | history | reopened |
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| Jan 27, 2021 at 10:57 | history | edited | Tinkeringbell♦ | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
Edited the title, which was still asking a 'what should I do' type question. Also edited the post body, see comments for explanation. .
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| Jan 27, 2021 at 10:57 | comment | added | Tinkeringbell♦ | You might also want to include what you've tried to correct her 'making up things', as there's not much in your question about that right now. If you hate the edit feel free to roll it back, but do remember that there's still work to be done. If you roll back you're going to at least need to come up with a good title yourself, and include the bit I asked about in my previous comment, about including more details about how you've tried the things you tried. | |
| Jan 27, 2021 at 10:57 | comment | added | Tinkeringbell♦ | Hi PKU! I''m giving your post a big edit: I summarized the relationship/breakup part because it was drowning out the part about the behavior you're trying to deal with now. I think the second-to-last paragraph includes some of the most important information from your question: what you've tried to do and her reaction to it. I think it could be beneficial to your question to include a bit more details about how you tried to explain, and perhaps also a bit more about how she interprets this. | |
| Jan 27, 2021 at 3:57 | review | Reopen votes | |||
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| Jan 27, 2021 at 3:41 | comment | added | PKU | Em C, I have updated my question. Hopefully it's now compliant to be considered a suitable question in IPS. | |
| Jan 27, 2021 at 3:38 | history | edited | PKU | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Jan 27, 2021 at 2:57 | history | closed |
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| Jan 27, 2021 at 2:57 | comment | added | Em C | Hi PKU, I'm sorry you're in such a tough place. Unfortunately this site can't tell you what you should do - Q&A here needs to be focused on specific goal. So for instance, if you do want to tell her to only contact you for dog-related things, that's something we could help with. We actually have an older question that yours reminded me of, maybe the posts there could help? | |
| Jan 27, 2021 at 2:12 | review | Close votes | |||
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| Jan 26, 2021 at 21:13 | history | asked | PKU | CC BY-SA 4.0 |