Timeline for How to interpret and respond to people who belittle themselves?
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Nov 14, 2022 at 16:58 | vote | accept | lightning_missile | ||
May 11, 2022 at 8:24 | comment | added | RedSonja | "I've found it's not so much about being smart as about putting in the effort." Oh my goodness yes. Sometimes after a concert someone will say to me "I wish I could play that, lucky you to be so talented!" And I have to find a way to point out it's not luck but decades of practice. Without pointing out that they could be this good too if they were willing to do the work. | |
Apr 29, 2022 at 19:42 | comment | added | Tinkeringbell♦ | Another related one: interpersonal.stackexchange.com/q/21490/1599 which also talks a bit about ways to respond to compliments, besides just saying thanks. Depending on culture, it apparently isn't always considered rude to do something else besides saying some form of 'thankyou' :) | |
Apr 29, 2022 at 15:50 | history | edited | Kate Gregory | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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Apr 29, 2022 at 14:32 | comment | added | Kate Gregory | also: interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/27544/… | |
Apr 29, 2022 at 14:30 | comment | added | Kate Gregory | related: interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/5707/… | |
Apr 29, 2022 at 14:29 | history | answered | Kate Gregory | CC BY-SA 4.0 |