Timeline for How can I talk to my boyfriend about chores "sharing"?
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| Sep 20, 2017 at 10:30 | comment | added | avazula | @AllTheKingsHorses "Aren't you afraid that you might gradually get more and more annoyed [...] nd that some day you'll explode and then he'll be really offended?" That's exactly why I'm here seeking for advice on how to approach this issue. | |
| Sep 20, 2017 at 10:26 | comment | added | AllTheKingsHorses | @avazula Aren't you afraid that you might gradually get more and more annoyed because you end up picking up more and more chores? And that some day you'll explode and then he'll be really offended? I'd find it healthier to establish equitable rules sooner rather than later to avoid that. Also, please figure out for yourself: If he can't get over having to do his share of the chores, is he really relationship material for you? | |
| Sep 20, 2017 at 9:39 | comment | added | Alina Cretu | Ah, I see your point. I imagined you'd use a positive approach and reassure him you're completely ok with doing more since you have more time. And whenever he does his chores that day/week make sure to thank him and let him see you appreciate the help and it makes a difference for you. I wish you the best of luck none the less! | |
| Sep 20, 2017 at 9:33 | comment | added | avazula | thanks for the tip! I admit I find it rude, to me it sounds like a way to say: "look at everything I do, what do you do?". I'm afraid he gets offended. | |
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| Sep 20, 2017 at 9:19 | history | edited | Anne Daunted GoFundMonica | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Sep 20, 2017 at 9:15 | history | answered | Alina Cretu | CC BY-SA 3.0 |