Timeline for How to handle my girlfriend when she takes things wrong way?
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| Oct 3, 2017 at 14:56 | comment | added | joynoele | @Mari-Lou A While the video is cute, but I'd like to stress that it's not a gender dynamic at play. Most people venting about work for example, want to vent and not usually for the other person to "fix" anything. I've been on both sides of it. It's convenient to attribute this dynamic to gender rather than understanding an individual. Growth-minded relationships use this sort of friction to build stronger instead of break down. This can be the very thing that helps OP + gf change trajectory to better understand and build each other up. | |
| Sep 29, 2017 at 18:44 | comment | added | user3114 | I wouldn't show the girlfriend the video unless I knew for certain she could laugh at herself. In less sensitive hands that video could be the cataclysm for a breakup. But it illustrates the "men are from Mars" and "women are from Venus" cliché quite well. Oh, and it is funny. | |
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| Sep 29, 2017 at 18:09 | history | answered | joynoele | CC BY-SA 3.0 |