Timeline for How to approach an inevitable breakup after sudden death in partner's family?
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| Mar 22, 2018 at 18:53 | comment | added | Bemisawa | @Steve Would you consider relationship counseling down the road? Given how you've described the second apartment incident and the reasons for that, it might be a helpful option. Not that it's necessarily the right option if you wouldn't be interested in continuing the relationship if this issue could be resolved, but if you are interested, people have recovered from far worse. | |
| Feb 1, 2018 at 6:46 | history | protected | A J♦ | ||
| Feb 1, 2018 at 4:28 | answer | added | Wadih M. | timeline score: 1 | |
| Jan 31, 2018 at 9:54 | comment | added | JAD | @AlexandreAudin Thanks for your suggested edit, but I think that your wording changes the question slightly, and I'm not sure it really matches the OP's intentions. | |
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| Jan 30, 2018 at 21:50 | answer | added | Crowley | timeline score: 3 | |
| Jan 30, 2018 at 20:15 | comment | added | corsiKa | @Steve would you consider it bad if this episode with her father passing led to you two being close again? | |
| Jan 30, 2018 at 15:35 | answer | added | Tom | timeline score: 4 | |
| Jan 30, 2018 at 5:24 | answer | added | Andrew Mackie | timeline score: 13 | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 23:27 | comment | added | Cort Ammon | Taking AndreiROM's question one step further, have you merely given up, or do you actively desire to end it? If you've merely given up, you may find the seeds of a fresh relationship sprouting up amidst the ashes, and you can choose whether you want to cultivate them or not. If you are actively desiring to end it, you'll likely stomp those seeds out (perhaps even subconsciously), so the answers will have to take that into account. | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 21:13 | comment | added | Lord Farquaad | @Steve Do you feel the trust issues are the majority of what's caused the schism in your relationship? That is, were things as they'd been before the apartment issue, would you still be thinking of breaking up? Leaning on someone necessitates trusting them. Helping her through a situation like this will go a long way in repairing the damage done. | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 20:59 | history | edited | Anne Daunted GoFundMonica | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 20:46 | answer | added | BlackThorn | timeline score: 101 | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 20:12 | answer | added | sphennings | timeline score: 5 | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 20:11 | answer | added | AndreiROM | timeline score: 15 | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:51 | history | reopened |
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:41 | history | edited | Tinkeringbell♦ | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
As pointed out before, asking how long to wait isn't a good question for this site. I've edited it out of the question completely, please don't try to bypass community guidelines by editing it in again.
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:40 | history | edited | Jess K. | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:39 | history | edited | AndreiROM | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:38 | history | rollback | sphennings |
Rollback to Revision 3
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:38 | history | rollback | sphennings |
Rollback to Revision 1
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:38 | history | edited | AndreiROM | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
generally improved readability, and streamlined the situation a bit
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:34 | history | closed |
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:34 | comment | added | Steve | At this point I've pretty much given up, given what our day to day is like @AndreiROM | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:31 | comment | added | AndreiROM | Have you completely given up on the relationship, or do you want to end it because it seems to be what she's leaning toward? This makes a big difference in the way the question might be answered. | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:29 | history | edited | Steve | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:27 | comment | added | Tinkeringbell♦ | I don't think there's a set etiquette for this, so how long you should wait is probably off-topic and too opinion based. But, this is a tough situation. We might be able to help you with the breaking up, but we can't tell you how long you should wait... | |
| Jan 29, 2018 at 19:16 | history | asked | Steve | CC BY-SA 3.0 |