Timeline for How to ask your girlfriend to pay her share of the rent when she moves in?
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| Oct 24, 2017 at 3:00 | review | Close votes | |||
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| Oct 23, 2017 at 16:18 | comment | added | Andrew | "Will you marry me?" | |
| Oct 23, 2017 at 0:50 | comment | added | foobarbecue | Just play youtu.be/LH-i8IvYIcg on repeat in the house (wow, I actually hadn't seen the video before -- it's even more sexist than the song) | |
| Oct 23, 2017 at 0:45 | comment | added | user6355 | am not convinced that she will try at all, as she hasn't shown any initiative yet for job-searching, and is making excuses to why she cannot start .... When we move, how long of job hunting do you think is a reasonable time frame for you to get a job before you decide to move back - Sounds like you have very little trust or respect for this woman. IMO you should find a new g-friend. But first figure out what you want from a woman... | |
| Oct 20, 2017 at 18:59 | comment | added | J.Todd | @MarioGarcia Right? This scenario sounds like not getting a job is grounds for a breakup, not a request that the partner move out. "I'd prefer you not live with me unless you get a job" seems almost inseparable to me from "I'd rather we not be together at all (unless you get a job)". | |
| Oct 20, 2017 at 11:30 | comment | added | Gnudiff | Question is do you have common ground on expectations. Have you talked about : if we live together how do you expect our living to be organised? Who does what part of common expenses & tasks? If not, makes sense to do so, before starting to live together | |
| Oct 20, 2017 at 8:28 | comment | added | user510 | Why did you ask her to move in with you? Was it something she expected? It sounds like you would rather have her live in her own apartment, perhaps for good reason. | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 22:52 | comment | added | Andy | It sounds like she should only move in when she has a job then. | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 21:29 | answer | added | Jennifer 442 | timeline score: 3 | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 20:08 | history | protected | apaul | ||
| Oct 19, 2017 at 18:33 | answer | added | iDeal | timeline score: -5 | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 18:21 | answer | added | redrubberball | timeline score: 5 | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 18:06 | answer | added | Stephan Branczyk | timeline score: 5 | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 17:25 | answer | added | kevin cline | timeline score: 5 | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 16:42 | comment | added | corsiKa | "I don't expect her to immediately start paying her share from day 1" Why is this? If she's going to be paying it soon, why wouldn't she be paying it immediately? | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 14:22 | comment | added | Mario Garcia | So you are saying you prefer to live alone if she doesn't find a job at all? | |
| S Oct 19, 2017 at 3:44 | history | mod moved comments to chat | |||
| S Oct 19, 2017 at 3:44 | comment | added | Catija | Comments are not for extended discussion; this conversation has been moved to chat. | |
| Oct 19, 2017 at 2:14 | answer | added | The_Watcher | timeline score: 2 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 21:53 | history | edited | Programmer | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 20:40 | answer | added | user7480 | timeline score: 18 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 19:27 | history | rollback | Vylix |
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| S Oct 18, 2017 at 19:26 | history | suggested | CommunityBot | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
the original question had "invited", changing the term means changing the meaning
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 18:01 | review | Suggested edits | |||
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 18:01 | answer | added | Chris Sunami | timeline score: 31 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 17:53 | answer | added | Amber Hart | timeline score: 2 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 12:51 | answer | added | Ivan Skalauh | timeline score: -3 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 12:25 | answer | added | Zibbobz | timeline score: 5 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 11:21 | history | edited | OldPadawan | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 11:19 | history | edited | Programmer | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 11:15 | review | Close votes | |||
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 10:58 | comment | added | user288 | Where are you located? Culture is an important aspect of interpersonal relationships; location helps us determine culture. | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 10:44 | comment | added | Tycho's Nose | In my opinion there is some important information missing here. How long have you been together and how long has she been unemployed for (and not looking for a job). | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 9:49 | answer | added | Martijn | timeline score: 4 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 9:11 | answer | added | Bookeater | timeline score: 71 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 9:00 | answer | added | ashleedawg | timeline score: 6 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 8:51 | comment | added | Steve Smith | Did your girlfriend leave a job to move with you to the new city? | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 8:44 | answer | added | coteyr | timeline score: 23 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 8:32 | answer | added | Tom | timeline score: 82 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 7:08 | answer | added | PhrozenSky | timeline score: 13 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 6:33 | answer | added | MartinArrJay | timeline score: 111 | |
| Oct 18, 2017 at 6:11 | review | First posts | |||
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| Oct 18, 2017 at 6:09 | history | asked | Programmer | CC BY-SA 3.0 |