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Friends doesn't get How to communicate about not giving a wedding gift atto friends who haven't held their weddingparty yet?

We are a group of close friends. 2 MonthsTwo months ago, two of our friends got married. Usually we give a gift to them when they hold a party. But, because of the coronavirus, they didn't hold any party, just a basic ceremony. We couldn't attend and couldn't give any gift. They have said they'll give a party at a later time, but there is no exact date yet.

Now, the situation is much better, another friend is getting married, and she will hold a wedding party (already allowed by government). We have plans to attend it and give a gift.

The problem is, how we can act fair and communicate this to the two friends that we didn't give a gift? We don't want to hurt their feelings.

Friends doesn't get gift at their wedding

We are a group of close friends. 2 Months ago, two of our friends got married. Usually we give a gift to them when they hold a party. But, because of the coronavirus, they didn't hold any party, just basic ceremony. We couldn't attend and couldn't give any gift. They have said they'll give a party at a later time, but there is no exact date yet.

Now, the situation is much better, another friend is getting married, she will hold a wedding party (already allowed by government). We have plans to attend it and give a gift.

The problem is, how we can act fair and communicate this to the two friends that we didn't give a gift? We don't want to hurt their feelings

How to communicate about not giving a wedding gift to friends who haven't held their party yet?

We are a group of close friends. Two months ago, two of our friends got married. Usually we give a gift to them when they hold a party. But, because of the coronavirus, they didn't hold any party, just a basic ceremony. We couldn't attend and couldn't give any gift. They have said they'll give a party at a later time, but there is no exact date yet.

Now, the situation is much better, another friend is getting married, and she will hold a wedding party (already allowed by government). We have plans to attend it and give a gift.

The problem is, how we can act fair and communicate this to the two friends that we didn't give a gift? We don't want to hurt their feelings.

added in the clarification from your comment about a party being held at a later date.
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We are a group of close friends. 2 Months ago, two of our friendfriends got married. Usually we give a gift to them when they hold a party. But, because of the coronavirus, they don'tdidn't hold any party, just basic ceremony, we can't. We couldn't attend and can'tcouldn't give any gift. They have said they'll give a party at a later time, but there is no exact date yet. 

Now, the situation is much better, another friend areis getting married, she will hold a wedding party (already allowed by government). We have planplans to attend it and give a gift. 

The problem is, how we can act fair and communicate this to the two our friends that we don'tdidn't give a gift? We don't want to hurt their feelings

We are a group of close friends. 2 Months ago, two of our friend got married. Usually we give gift to them when they hold a party. But, because the coronavirus, they don't hold any party, just basic ceremony, we can't attend and can't give any gift. Now, situation is much better, another friend are getting married, she will hold a wedding party (already allowed by government). We have plan to attend it and give a gift. The problem is, how we can act fair and communicate this to two our friends that we don't give gift? We don't want to hurt their feelings

We are a group of close friends. 2 Months ago, two of our friends got married. Usually we give a gift to them when they hold a party. But, because of the coronavirus, they didn't hold any party, just basic ceremony. We couldn't attend and couldn't give any gift. They have said they'll give a party at a later time, but there is no exact date yet. 

Now, the situation is much better, another friend is getting married, she will hold a wedding party (already allowed by government). We have plans to attend it and give a gift. 

The problem is, how we can act fair and communicate this to the two friends that we didn't give a gift? We don't want to hurt their feelings

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