I'm a shy person, and tend to be the last to speak in a discussion or meeting.
But I noticed that in my group (a hobby group), most people are quiet too, and also passive when taking turns in discussion. This is problematic because sometimes we need to vote, or gather ideas, or even organize an event.
At these times, I think I need to at least lead the discussion (as the eldest person).
Keep in mind that all of my members are usually quiet, and I don't want the discussion stuck in one decision and others just agree because they don't want to give their opinion. There is no appointed leader.
How to lead the meeting successfully, as in members should be active in giving opinion, and I don't need to talk a lot?
I live in Indonesia, if that matters.